Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak
April 24, 2007 - January 20, 2021
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Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, age 13, of Menasha, passed away on January 20, 2021. Xavier was born in Green Bay, Wisconsin to Pedro Ibarra Cortes and Lindy Joy Stascak on April 24, 2007.  He was a student at Maplewood Middle School in Menasha. Xavier was an excellent fisherman and loved to spend hours by the…

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Nestor Andres Vera left a message on June 17, 2021:
que descanse mi hermano en paz aun que no fuistes mi hermano verdadero te extrano
Nestor Andres Vera left a message on June 17, 2021:
que descanse mi hermano en paz aun que no fuistes mi hermano verdadero te extrano
Paul kelly left a message on February 6, 2021:
I just heard the tragic news. I am so sorry for your loss. Xavier was an exceptional young man who made people better just by being around him. He will forever be in our thoughts and prayers.
Paul kelly left a message on February 6, 2021:
I just heard the tragic news. I am so sorry for your loss. Xavier was an exceptional young man who made people better just by being around him. He will forever be in our thoughts and prayers.
MiSky Wang left a message on February 1, 2021:
my dear friends... It is so shocking to hear this. I can't believe what happened. I know this must be really hard for you, and I don't know what I can say to make it better. I hope you guys can stay strong with your two little ones and for yourselves too... My deepest condolences. May God bless you.
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Jennifer McDermot left a message on January 29, 2021:
Xavier, I never met you but I know your Mom. I met you once. May your family find peace during this most difficult time. May you rest in peace under the glory of God. May the other angels in heaven hold you close and give your mourning family peace. A loss of a child is deep and difficult. My prayers of comfort for your family.
Isaac Jesus left a message on January 27, 2021:
Rest In Piece Xavier I didn’t know you that much but I am heart broken that you have left this world I love you bro and prayers to all of your family. Forever in my heart ❤️
Mikey leimer left a message on January 27, 2021:
So sorry for your loss, may you be United again one day. A friend or Melissa and shanticia garcia
Mía De Jesús left a message on January 27, 2021:
In memory of one of the brightest friends i’ve ever had.
Hayden Woelfel left a message on January 27, 2021:
I will always be there for you and your family in this time of hurt and healing. Contact me anytime you need me. -Hayden
Aaliyah Scalia left a message on January 27, 2021:
I will miss you so very much. You had such a kind soul and you were an amazing friend,you will forever be in my heart. I will miss walking to the school seeing you after your football practice. You were the funniest person and such a sweet person. i’ll miss u. with much love Aaliyah Scalia
Charlotte Robinson left a message on January 27, 2021:
I remembered one time in 7th grade you would wear this adidas sweater. I got the same one. I have it in my room still to be reminded
Key Evans left a message on January 27, 2021:
Rip Xavier
Ms. Rodencal left a message on January 27, 2021:
I am so heartbroken for your loss. I will always remember Xavier's smile and the brightness he brought to our classroom. My prayers are with your family and loved ones at this time and always.
sharlene garcia left a message on January 27, 2021:
rest in peace. you will be missed.
Lindsay Miller left a message on January 27, 2021:
My prayers go out to all of you. I could never imagine the sadness you all have in your hearts at this moment. My son went to school with yours and told me about this tragedy. I cried with tears of sadness for all of you and for my son who knew him. This is a time I never thought I’d have to explain to my 13 year old why one of his classmates is gone. Prayers and condolences to the entire family. Thank you. Lindsay Miller ‘
Becky Green left a message on January 27, 2021:
I am so sorry for your loss. We have also experienced a teen death in my family many years ago, my heart and prayers are with your family.
Marisol Mantei left a message on January 27, 2021:
Mis más sentidas y sinceras condolencias para todos ustedes. Que Dios les conceda paz en sus corazones y les dé fuerzas para superar la partida de Xavier. No fue necesario conocerlo personalmente para que con solo mirar su foto, tener la certeza de que era un gran ser humano. Ahora él es parte del innumerable grupo de Ángeles celestiales que les acompañara por siempre. Por favor reciban un abrazo caluroso desde el fondo de mi corazón y del departamento de Intérpretes del Distrito Escolar de Menasha.
Veronica Martinez left a message on January 27, 2021:
We were all blessed to have Xavier be a part of our life, he will forever hold a special place in my heart and will never be forgotten. My condolences to his family, friends and teammates.
dulce left a message on January 27, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, dulce lit a candle
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Phil Weyers left a message on January 27, 2021:
Son, brother, nephew, cousin, friend, his gentle touch and warm light was felt by so many. Gone far too soon, but you will live on with us forever. Love you Nano
Cymone Cowling left a message on January 27, 2021:
My thoughts and prayers are with Xavier's entire family, and his friends. He will be dearly missed by his Maplewood family.
Magdalena García left a message on January 27, 2021:
Mi más sentido pésame para toda la familia. Le pido a Dios que les de pronto resignación, un ángel más en el cielo. En paz descanse🙏 Dios bendiga a toda la familia.
Sheila left a message on January 27, 2021:
I did not know him well, we only met a couple of times but I remember he was always bright and we had fun playing with each other, may you fly high to all the angels up there 🙏🏻
Chris and Marisol Kuborn left a message on January 27, 2021:
Our deepest Sympathies to you all. Remember the wonderful times you all had together, the impact of Xavier on all those who knew him will live on forever! We are with you all during this difficult time.
Sra.Ramirez left a message on January 27, 2021:
Xavier, me siento muy afortunada de haber tenido la oportunidad de trabajar contigo. Eras un gran estudiante, pero más que eso eras un gran ser humano. Te vamos a extrañar y a recordar siempre con esa hermosa sonrisa que te caracterizaba. Descansa en paz
Mike Leatherman left a message on January 27, 2021:
I will miss our afternoons joking and kicking field goals Z. I'm so happy that you were a part of my life. I really hope that I did not fail you and miss something that was troubling you buddy. I will always pray for you and hope you are at peace. See you down the road, Coach Mike
Jeanne Jung left a message on January 27, 2021:
Xavier will always be a part of our band family at Maplewood; while there is a huge hole in the band and jazz band, we will hold his memory close in our hearts and he will always be a part of us. Xavier left a legacy behind: he was an amazing musician and was always willing to help others; he was a leader by example; he always played his music and his sports with his heart, holding nothing back; he had a good sense of humor, was very intelligent and was kind; the thought of his smile still makes me smile, even through the tears, I know he touched many lives at Maplewood. I look forward to seeing you again in heaven, Xavier. Your family and friends will be in my prayers for a long time to come. We will miss you.
Kevin Ryan and family left a message on January 27, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Kevin Ryan and family lit a candle
Jordan left a message on January 27, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Jordan lit a candle
Jordan sconiers left a message on January 27, 2021:
My thoughts and prayers go out to Xavier’s family. He was a good teammate, friend, classmate and person. We will miss him. Rest In Peace.
Jordan sconiers left a message on January 27, 2021:
My thoughts and prayers go out to Xavier’s family. He was a good teammate, friend, classmate and person. We will miss him. Rest In Peace.
Lindy Stascak left a message on January 27, 2021:
My sweet baby boy..... I have such a void in my heart...... I will forever be thankful and BLESSED to have such a handsome, loving, intelligent and caring young man call ME 'Mama' I love you down to the deepest, darkest depths of my soul hijo. Siempre estaras con nosotros.....tu Mama, tu hermano mayor, tu hermanita Liliana, y tu hermanitita Emma. We love you Son!
Osroe Kaquatosh left a message on January 26, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Osroe Kaquatosh lit a candle
Amanda Ikkala left a message on January 26, 2021:
I am so very sorry for the loss of Xavior. My prayers and condolences are with his family, friends and teammates.
Kris Xiong left a message on January 26, 2021:
You were a good teammate, classmate, and friend. You'll always be remembered as the funny, joyful and great person that you are and always will be.
Andrea Arvizu left a message on January 26, 2021:
Mi más sentido pésame, pronta resignación para toda la familia.
Jeff Daigle left a message on January 26, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Jeff Daigle lit a candle
Graciela Dominguez left a message on January 26, 2021:
We are very sorry for your loss. May the Lord give you comfort in this difficult time .
Tim Talbott left a message on January 26, 2021:
Xavier was a great kid who was easily coachable on the football field. A great kicker. He had an easy going nature and was well liked by his teammates. It was a privilege to coach him in both 7th and 8th grade. He will be truly missed.
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Courtnay Basten left a message on January 26, 2021:
I know we haven't been in touch or as close as we used to be, but I want to send my sincerest condolences to you all in this time. If you need anything you can always reach out. He was a great kid and won't forget all the times at your house and watching him grow up.
Haley left a message on January 26, 2021:
An angel ❤️
Elizabeth Jones left a message on January 26, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Elizabeth Jones lit a candle
Ana Garcia left a message on January 26, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Ana Garcia lit a candle
Diana pahua left a message on January 26, 2021:
Mis mas sentido pesame y pronta resignacion para la familia un hermoso angel mas en el cielo
Linda Probst left a message on January 26, 2021:
RIP Xavier. Thoughts and prayers to all of Xavier's family members at his tragic passing. At thirteen Xavier didn't have a chance at his life ahead. Xavier sounded like a wonderful young man full of life with many talents. He may have left our earth, but walks with and beside all his loved ones and friends in Spirit until you meet again
Karen Puente left a message on January 26, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Karen Puente lit a candle
Karen Puente left a message on January 26, 2021:
Rip Xavier. We miss you.
Amarilys Morales left a message on January 26, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Amarilys Morales lit a candle
Ms. Sturzl left a message on January 26, 2021:
I enjoyed having Xavier in art class. He was kind, polite, talented, and had a knack for drawing large robots and other mechanical creations. I'll never forget his warm smile. Thinking of Xavier's family during this time and mourning their loss.
Emily Cendejas left a message on January 26, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Emily Cendejas lit a candle
Santiago Ledwith left a message on January 26, 2021:
As parents our hearts ache with Xavier’s departure. May his memories be a blessing and May God hold him in the hollow of his hand. Please accept Moira deepest condolences. Pedrito, no estás solo en este tramo tan difícil que la vida te ha puesto. Cuentas con muchos amigos que has sembrado a lo largo de tu camino con tu buena vibra. En este momento, el más difícil por el que puede pasar cualquier padre te abrazamos desde la distancia compartiendo este dolor y vacío tan abismal. No tengo más palabras...te abrazo y lloro contigo a pesar de la distancia.
Victoria left a message on January 26, 2021:
Xavier, I had only met you a couple times, but I saw the joy you brought to all those around you and to your family. You will be missed by all who were blessed to know you.
Ms. Lewiston left a message on January 26, 2021:
Xavier was one of my favorite smiles to see in the halls at Maplewood. My prayers and deepest condolences are with your family during this time.
Alan Frigo left a message on January 26, 2021:
Xavier, you'll always be "Xavier Pancakes" to me. Thank you for the time we've spent together. I'll miss seeing your smiling face, but you'll live on forever in our hearts. I love you.
Julie Wojahn left a message on January 26, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Julie Wojahn lit a candle
Mrs. Wojahn left a message on January 26, 2021:
Wishing your family peace. Maplewood will miss Xavier.
Paul and Sonia Frigo left a message on January 26, 2021:
We were there when you came into this world. We enjoyed our time together on the occasions we had the privilege of being with you. We wish we could have spent more time with you. You always had a smile for everyone. Your happiness and joy were infectious. We miss you and know you will find peace in heaven. Sonia, Paul and Olivia
Mrs. Hilbelink left a message on January 26, 2021:
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Stacie Hansen Kaminski left a message on January 26, 2021:
No parent should ever have to bury a child. I am so very sorry for this unimagineable loss. I realize there are no words to provide true comfort at a time like this. However, I pray the promise of grace and everlsting life bring you comfort knowing that you will be reunited again one day and then there will be no pain and no needs for good bye. Also I hope also knowing that even here on earth there will be times when you can feel his presence brings you comfort. I can't imagine loss and grief without grace and everlasting life. In the meantime may friends, family, and faith bring you comfort. This will be a long, hard path but you do not need to travel it alone. Sending love and healing energy. God Bless, Love Stacie Hansen Kaminski, Kyle, and Lauren
Mary Crawmer left a message on January 26, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Mary Crawmer lit a candle
Laura Dominguez left a message on January 26, 2021:
My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Mrs. Kletti left a message on January 26, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Mrs. Kletti lit a candle
Sra. Guerra left a message on January 26, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Sra. Guerra lit a candle
Taylor Sheets left a message on January 26, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Taylor Sheets lit a candle
Jaime Vera-Stascak left a message on January 25, 2021:
For my baby brother.
Tony and Bonnie Hansen left a message on January 25, 2021:
Lindy, Jaime, Liliana, Emma,,,,,,,and all of your extended family.... We are so very sorry for your loss. We cannot imagine the pain you’re going through. We hope all the wonderful and happy memories you have of Xavier will help bring you peace. We will be watching the livestream on Wednesday. Many prayers and {{{TIGHT HUGS}}} for you...... ❣️
Lindy Stascak left a message on January 25, 2021:
In memory of Xavier Alejandro Ibarra Stascak, Lindy Stascak lit a candle
Sheri Powelson left a message on January 25, 2021:
Fly with God's angels Xavier!
Wichmann Funeral Home & Crematories left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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