Melissa L. Selle
May 12, 1966 - January 23, 2019
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Riverview Ev. Lutheran Church
136 West Seymour Street
Appleton, WI
Sunday 1/27, 2:00 pm - 5:00 pm
Service
Riverview Ev. Lutheran Church
136 West Seymour Street
Appleton, WI
Monday 1/28, 11:00 am
Wichmann Funeral Home Tri-County Chapel
1592 Oneida Street
Menasha, WI 54952

Melissa L. (Frederick) Selle, 52, went home to her heavenly Father on January 23, 2019. Melissa was born on May 12, 1966 in Rolla, Missouri to Michael and Jerry (Burks) Frederick. Melissa grew up in Appleton, where she attended Appleton East High School. She worked at K-Mart, where she met the love of her life…

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Anita Hietpas (Annette Siegel's twin) left a message on January 28, 2019:
So sorry to hear about your beautiful wife, Tim. My heart aches for you, your children, and the rest of your family. Please know you are in our prayers..
Karrie and Gregg Laabs left a message on January 27, 2019:
Our deepest sympathy to your whole family!!! Love and hugs to you all!!
Doreen Trombley left a message on January 27, 2019:
I think my heart stopped when I saw this obituary Melissa was one of the first people to befriend me when I was in 9th grade at Madison Jr. Hi. She was always so kind. I have watched from a distance these past years as she has journeyed through her illness like a champ. She is such an inspiration. I am sad to see that her life was short but so encouraged by her great faith in Jesus through it all. I look forward to seeing her again fully healthy and fully whole, dancing in the presence of our precious and loving Jesus. I can only imagine...My sincere sympathy to her family during this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Greg Sell (Rochelle) left a message on January 26, 2019:
My deepest sympathies to Tim, the children, and Melissa's family. I worked with Melissa at the Pilot Plant on the Del Monte tray project. She went to Lab Tester and I went to Roll Finishing- Neenah Plant. Hadn't seen her in a few years but I always remembered her great personality, smile, positive attitude, and that she always took time to stop and say a few words as she walked through the plant.
You are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
Stu Wiley left a message on January 25, 2019:
Tim, my sincerest condolences to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Stu Wiley left a message on January 25, 2019:
Tim, my sincerest condolences to you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Rachel Vander Wielen left a message on January 25, 2019:
Praying for strength and comfort for your family in the coming days
Craig Winder left a message on January 25, 2019:
So sorry for your loss.
Joy Vollmer Louthain left a message on January 25, 2019:
So sorry for your lost. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Tim
Kelly Shea left a message on January 25, 2019:
Tim and family, I am so sorry for your loss. Melissa was one of a kind. One of the best people I have ever known. I’m glad I was able to stop by and visit her at Christmas. I will forever cherish the times we did have together.
Annette SiegelDan and Girls) left a message on January 25, 2019:
Dear Tim and Family and to all of Melissa's family and loved ones, so very sorry for your loss. Very beautiful words in her obituary that ring so true of how Melissa lived her life. She has left you all with great memories, faith, love, compassion. Know that she will always be in your hearts and watching over you all. (((Hugs))))
Tina wenzel left a message on January 25, 2019:
My deepest condolences to you and your family during this time. Your mother was an amazing woman and she will truly be missed.”
Sharon May left a message on January 25, 2019:
Dear Tim and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I'm sure she couldn't have had a more loving and supportive family than what God gave her. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Christy Harper left a message on January 25, 2019:
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Mike ( Smack ) Smarzinski left a message on January 25, 2019:
Tim I am so very sorry for your loss. She was such a wonderful person. even at work she could brighten up every ones day. Our prayers are with you and your family
Mike DeShasier left a message on January 25, 2019:
Tim, so aorry to hear about your wifes passing. I know she put up a hell of a fight. Me condolences to you and your family.
Harlan Vandenberg left a message on January 25, 2019:
Tim and family, I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful person Melissa was, I did have the pleasure to work with her,She always had a smile and good things to say, always talking about her family
My prayers are with you and your Family
Carla Kleinkemper left a message on January 25, 2019:
Words can not express how much Melissa meant to us all. She was definitely one of a kind and a true fighter. I have such wonderful memories of us all growing up and the times we spent together even though it was never enough. Melissa was such a fighter and even though she had this terrible disease she always had a smile for everyone. And such a beautiful smile it was. I will miss her but when I think about her in the years to come it will always bring a smile to my face. I love you all and even though I can’t be there know that I will be praying and thinking about you all during this difficult time.
Kamal Varma left a message on January 25, 2019:
Dear Tim and family
So sorry to hear about Melissa’s passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at these sad times. Mellisa was the loving, cheerful and humorous person. She loved life and knew how to live it. Her wonderful memories will always be with you to cherish for ever. Love you all
Douglad and Paula Nass left a message on January 25, 2019:
Praying for your comfort, yet rejoicing that another Christian has made their victory lap safe to Jesus' side.
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Dave & Kathy Pansy left a message on January 25, 2019:
Our deepest sympathy to the family, she is now at peace! She will be dearly missed by her friends at work, and by myself who always looked forward to her cheerful smile.
Julie Laehn left a message on January 24, 2019:
Tim and family, I am SO sorry for your loss. Melissa was a wonderful woman and I know she will be dearly missed. Sending prayers for comfort.
Robert russell left a message on January 24, 2019:
I am so sorry for your lost
[email protected] aol.com left a message on January 24, 2019:
She is a wonderful girl. I’m glad to have known her and her family
Kathy Seymour left a message on January 24, 2019:
Sorry for your loved ones loss. Cannot be there but in my thoughts & prayers. I am in Florida so cannot attend. Love to your family.
Joel Parker left a message on January 24, 2019:
My wife and I are so sorry for your loss. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
Monica and Kyle cada left a message on January 24, 2019:
Tim,
Our thoughts and prayers and with you and your family. Sorry for your loss.
victor wellhoefer left a message on January 24, 2019:
such s sweet lady--- i worked with her at the mill and she was so nice and funny to work with. she made life a little happier when we worked together. we will miss you but you are in a better place now. bless you little lady
Mary kersten left a message on January 24, 2019:
So very sorry for your loss sending you all our love
Ann Lorge left a message on January 24, 2019:
Tim and Family,
Sorry to hear about Melissa. You have my thoughts and prayers.
Ron Hoffmeyer left a message on January 24, 2019:
So sorry for your loss. You guys are a great family and I enjoyed all the great times we shared.
Wichmann Funeral Home & Crematories left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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