Julie A. Danelski
July 15, 1967 - April 5, 2004
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Fargo Funeral Home
400 West Wisconsin Avenue
Kaukauna, WI 54130
Friday 4/9, 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm
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Agudas Achim
Cudahy, WI
Tuesday 4/6
Fargo Funeral Home
400 West Wisconsin Avenue
Kaukauna, WI 54130
Fargo Funeral Home
400 West Wisconsin Avenue
Kaukauna, WI 54130
Friday 4/9, 7:00 pm

Age 36, died Monday, April 5, 2004 after a five-year, courageous battle with multiple sclerosis. Julie was born in Appleton on July 15, 1967, daughter of Marvin and Carolyn (Fritsch) Lemke of Appleton. In 1985 she graduated from Appleton East High School, and later began work at M & I Bank where she eventually became…

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Carrie left a message on April 5, 2014:

Your beautiful children...

Carrie left a message on April 5, 2014:

It's been 10 years and I miss you like it was yesterday! I love you my seester!

Judith left a message on April 6, 2009:
words cannot express just how much julie meant to me and my family. she is a part of my heart and will always be there. steve, demetra and irissa - know we are here and will do whatever we are able to do for you.
Barb Watkins left a message on April 6, 2009:
Although we never meet you. I feel as I knew you well. My condolences to your family. May God be there to guide them. Sincerely, The Watkins Family.
Kelly Branchal left a message on April 6, 2009:
When I heard that Julie was very ill, I went back and read several of her old posts online. What a sense of humor! She will be missed by everyone, even those like me who never got to meet her in person. Her spirit is still there for all to read! Peace and blessings to the family.
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Debra Blackwell left a message on April 6, 2009:
JulieD :-) ... I think Ol'Tick got it right on his webpage with what he said, "Who's on first?" My sincere condolences to you, Julie's family. Hugs and comfort, Debra Blackwell... ASMS
Marva Braxton left a message on April 6, 2009:
Carrie, my deepest sympathy and prayers goes out to your family. May God continue to be your source of strength through this difficult time. Your Friend/Family at School Specialty in Atlanta, GA!
Sonya Hoskins left a message on April 6, 2009:
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My deepest prayers go out to you and your family. Sonya
Andy Barnes left a message on April 6, 2009:
A sad loss of a lovely person, although we never met I felt we shared a lot of happiness online. Knowing Julie meant a lot to me.
Shaidy Ventura left a message on April 6, 2009:
Carrie and Family, I hope you know that you and your family are on my thoughts and prayers. Julie was a fighter until the end, and please rest assure that she is in a better place, watching over all of those who loved her and took care of her. I love you "seester"! Shaidy, Greg and The Kids!
D. Chartier left a message on April 6, 2009:
Julie, you will be missed by many. My sincerest sympathies to her family and friends.
James Bridges left a message on April 6, 2009:
I only knew Julie via ASMS. She will be greattly missed.
Pam Young left a message on April 6, 2009:
Julie was a fantastic person; a loving wife and mother; a terrific friend; a wonderful supporter of folks she hardly knew and who were in much better health than she; a fighter. The most important thing to her was her family. Steve was her love. Demetra and Irissa were her life. Her "fight" was born of her desire to live long enough to see her girls graduate from High School. She *will* see the girls graduate, marry, have kids .... just not from the same place she wanted to. Julie was one of a kind; a very special lady. She will be sorely missed . My heart goes out to her family. Please know that you will forever be in my prayers. I love you Jewels.
Gaylan Ritchie left a message on April 6, 2009:
Dear Julie died far too young and her journey with MS was exceedinly fast. Love to all her family, especially husband and children. She will be missed.
Yvonne LeJune left a message on April 6, 2009:
There are things we will never understand, this being one of them. Your race is done now Julie, rest well and leave us to go on but you will always be in our memories.
laura lauth left a message on April 6, 2009:
Your Julie touched so many lives. I will miss her in this world of the newsgroup. Lo
Susan Yoh left a message on April 6, 2009:
I'm glad I got to know Julie in ASMS.My heart goes out to Steve,Demetra,Irissa and her whole family.Julie loved you so much.Blessed Be.
Joan left a message on April 6, 2009:
Jim and I wish to express our condolences to the family. We only knew Julie through asms but valued her input and sensitivity. She will be missed by all who knew her. Joan and Jim Carter
Roarke left a message on April 6, 2009:
I remember Julie's many compassionate yet active and vibrant posts on ASMS. On many of my early enquiries, Julie reached out and gave a guiding hand in the darkness. She soon became a name I would look out for, and relied upon as solid, sensible and compassionate, yet also a lot of fun too. Much loved, much respected and valued, much missed and certainly won't be forgotten. Roarke
John Fletcher left a message on April 6, 2009:
Rest in peace and may you wander happy on beaches long and mountains high free from our disease that does not kill except for by the inch.
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Donn Irving left a message on April 6, 2009:
I shall never forget the very first time I saw Julie's comments and her signature nickname, Gargoyles, on ASMS. Instantly, I had a vision of a person, happily self descirbed, sitting on the ledge of a building with a puckish smile and a very pointed sense of humor that would tickle hearts, sooth minds and add the very best reasons for sharing with others the trials, tribulations along with the joys of life. I will indeed miss Julie, the Gargoyle lady of ASMS. Donn Irving
Joyce left a message on April 6, 2009:
Julie was a big hearted person who filled our group with joy and laughter. i only knew her through the group but she was always kind and had a good word for those in need.
Brenda Heussaff left a message on April 6, 2009:
Julie, we will all miss you so much! Steve, Demetra and Irissa, know that my prayers are with you and you will always be in my thoughts. Julie was a special person who helped me through some rough times and I knew I could count on her to be there with a positive thought and good advice. She had an angel's soul, and I know she is in a better place now, but will be with us forever. Irissa and Demetra, she is your special guardian angel now! Love, Brenda
Laura left a message on April 6, 2009:
I am so sorry for Julie's entire family for this great loss.
Roy left a message on April 6, 2009:
To Julie Danelski's family and friends, At times such as these, one wishes that just the right words would arise in our minds, emanate from our hearts, and pour sweetly from our lips. I do not have such words to offer. Please accept, on behalf of Julie, all my best intentions to offer comfort now and through time as family and friends adjust to this new reality. Two of my sisters and I have MS. Roy from alt.support.mult-sclerosis
jack n dalton left a message on April 6, 2009:
Enjoyed email with her a lot over the years as part of the alt.support.mult-sclerosis support group.
Lynne Davis left a message on April 6, 2009:
You lit up my life like thousands of fireflies - showing me the way, gently guiding me, making me smile. I will miss you daily, but I will listen for you hovering around the edges of my thoughts and I will look for gargoyles keeping eternal watch over me. I'll miss you so much, Julie.
Cara and Charles Wagner left a message on April 6, 2009:
May your memories of good times balm your sorrows. C&C Wagner
bob davidson left a message on April 6, 2009:
she was so young,,,gonna miss her
Rob DeLain left a message on April 6, 2009:
To Julie, A short message can not suffice the emotions of these days, but I know that Julie's tremendous generosity, strength and passion that we are paying respect to lives on in all of her wonderful family. We are all fortunate to have known, experienced and been part of her life. My thoughts continue to be with you. Rob
Kathy & Dick DeVries left a message on April 6, 2009:
Carrie and Family, Our sympathies to you on the loss of Julie. You are in our thoughts and prayers. May God and time heal your heartache and may warmest memories remain.
Tom and Cathy DeLain left a message on April 6, 2009:
The most difficult thing a family must do is to say Goodbye to one of its closest members. Our thoughts are with you all during this trying time
Lindsey Meerstra left a message on April 6, 2009:
Dear Carrie (& family), You're in my heart, my thoughts, and my prayers. May you be given strength in this difficult time. Rejoice in her peace, and cherish her memory. Julie was blessed to have loved ones like you.
Brenda Hietpas & Steve Lythjohan left a message on April 6, 2009:
Steve,Demetra & Irissa We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts & prayers. If there is anything we can do please let us know. Take care.
Marion Miller left a message on April 6, 2009:
I know Julie was very loved. Her sister Carrie spoke of her often here at work,during her illness, and our hearts went out to her. She is now cradled in the arms of her maker and is totally happy and at peace. Marion
John Husvar left a message on April 6, 2009:
So long, J.D. A.s.m-s isn't going to be quite the same without you.
Carole Ford left a message on April 6, 2009:
Julie was such a wonderful person and her words will be missed on the online ms support group. I feel blessed for having known her. My thoughts are with Julie's family. Carole Ford
Tee Chapman left a message on April 6, 2009:
Oh dear sweet Julie... words fail me in this time of sorrow. It seems like only yesterday we met on the asms newsgroup... has it really been 5 years? You were always there with a kind word, a quick wit and what I imagined, beautiful laughter. You lit up my world dear friend and I'll carry that light in my heart forever. I miss you Gargoyle-Julie.. and will love you always. Tee
Sylvia left a message on April 6, 2009:
I only "knew" Julie on a computer screen, but she was a great friend. ASMS misses her and her witty comments. My sincere sympathy to Steve, Demetra, Irissa, and the rest of her family. Sylvia
Elizabeth Portman left a message on April 6, 2009:
Dear Gargoyles, Words fail me. My throat constricts, and my heart lurches knowing she's gone. She was loved, appreciated, and brought much joy to my life. I miss her badly. She gave so much, and got so little. Love Elizabeth.
Peace of mind is a call away. We're here when you need us most.
Kathy Kramer left a message on April 6, 2009:
Oh Julie, what can I say. When I joined the asms group, in late 1999, you were very kind to me. We shared a cyber glass of wine (I think it was chardonnay...). I'm going to miss you more than I can say. Love ya kiddo...
Steve&Lynn Rochon left a message on April 6, 2009:
Our thought's and prayers go out to your family.
Kathie Turner left a message on April 6, 2009:
Julie was a valued member of the newsgroup; she is missed already.
David L. Deibert (Seamus) left a message on April 6, 2009:
I always Loved her humor on the newsgroup. She will be missed.
Denise Carr left a message on April 6, 2009:
I knew Julie for such a short time, but her sense of humor, her strength, and her spirit touched me. She blessed me. I will never forget her. My thoughts are with all her family and friends.
Michael Muirhead left a message on April 6, 2009:
My heart goes out to all those Julie's left behind to keep her in memory. It's so sad when friends go away. I'll miss you, Julie... and our little international kaffeeklatch will all miss our gargoyle. Godspeed. ((U)) M
Angel left a message on April 6, 2009:
I miss you Julie. You wre one of the first people on ASMS who greeted me and made me feel at home. You always had a nice word, or a word of concern for me. You made the group a better place, with your stories about Demetra and Irissa, Steve and your different animals. When I got kicked out of my house, you let me lean on you. I love you Julie, Much Love, Angel
Jennifer Van Asten left a message on April 6, 2009:
Carrie and family, I am sorry for the loss of your loved one. She truly fought a courageous battle and is at peace now. I loved the "seester" part you included in the memorial! She'll be in your hearts forever. Stay strong and never let the memories go. You're in my thoughts and prayers, Jennifer Van Asten
Wichmann Funeral Home & Crematories left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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