Tribute
Mom, your absence leaves a void in the hearts of all who were blessed to be loved by you. Your radiant personality, a blend of warmth and courage, will forever be imprinted in our hearts, inspiring our actions, words, and deeds.
As a boy you meant the world to me, you were my everything, my guiding star. Reflecting on the countless gifts you passed on to me, I cherish most the moments we spent together, especially during countless home gatherings with your closest friends. Those occasions, filled with laughter, storytelling, and the incredible music of the 60s and 70s, were more than just social events; they were life lessons in the art of living that only could have come from you.
Your ability to navigate the social tapestry of our lives, effortlessly bonding with everyone you met, was nothing short of magical. People were drawn to your genuine nature, often forming lifelong bonds after only a single encounter. Your contagious personality knew no bounds and created a sense of belonging that resonated with so many. We all knew where to find a listening ear and a comforting embrace when in need.
Chad and I, more than anyone, understood the depth of your love and the strength of your character. You instilled in us the values of generosity, empathy, and respect for the finite nature of life's blessings. Your unwavering love and authenticity were guiding lights for both of us that shaped the men we became.
To those fortunate enough to know you, your presence was a strong model and taught resilience, poise, elegance, and grace. We, who had the privilege of your company, are indeed the lucky ones. For Chad and me, you were the epitome of warmth, comfort, and unparalleled love.
As we bid farewell, know that your spirit lives on within us. You will forever be a part of our hearts, thoughts, and souls.
Rest in peace, our beloved social butterfly. Until we meet again, your love and legacy will continue to inspire us all.
SURVIVING MEMBERS SECTION
Darla is preceded in death by her son, Chad Esslinger; daughter, Tracy Esslinger; parents, Clarence “Lefty” and Marjorie Wolfgram; and mother-in-law, Gerri Esslinger.
She is survived by her son, Shawn (Cheryl) Esslinger; grandchildren, Aarika (Caiden Shulfer) Esslinger, Devin (Jessica) Esslinger, Hailey (Brett Anderson) Esslinger, Amber Miller, and Jacob Esslinger; great-grandchildren, Caydance and Benson; and sisters, Gail (Steve) Bruce, Carol Gosz, and Karen Lembcke; and Thomas Dey.
A TRIBUTE FROM JOHN H. ERNST
~ John and I met soon after my brother Chad and I landed in Neenah. We became inseparable, and have stayed in touch for over forty years. John and I have always been able to see the true heart in each other. I was so moved by John’s sentiments and beautiful tribute to our mother that I asked him if I could share it openly.
Queen Mother and Warrior Huntress
DARLA, THE FIRST GREAT MOTHER TO ME AND MORE…
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